Monday, February 15, 2010

update

thanks for all of the comments on the wheat allergy! first and foremost, let it be known that i was wrong about olivia not being able to have her beloved white cheddar cheetos (all natural, so they're healthy...right?). thanks to my aunt jill's comment, little lady was surprised by a delicious, long-lost snack that day! hilarious. we have also had spaghetti with rice pasta (thanks shannon) and have been scouring the internet to check out all your suggestions. who knew i had such allergy-savvy friends??!

anyway, i seriously cannot even think about how or what to blog to catch you people up on our lives. for now, here's a pic of what we seem to be enduring a lot of lately.


you can't really tell, but violet is totally screaming in this picture too. pure chaos. long story short- olivia does not like violet at all and gets particularly upset when violet cries. at first, i think it was just that it kind of scared her/made her nervous. now, she knows that violet crying means that i will probably be picking her up, which she does NOT like. so, whenever she hears violet cry, she drops what she is doing and runs to me. i guess she figures if she can hurry and take the spot in my lap, then the lame-0 baby can't have me! she's also tried to shove violet off my lap on those occasions that she has not gotten to me in time. such is life with a 19 month old and an almost 1 month old, right? i will say that it has gotten a little better, and now her crying is more short-lived and probably totally fake. but it still makes me feel so bad!

anywho, i'll get around to posting some better pictures once i actually take some. i'm totally being a classic mom of 2 and taking NO pictures of baby violet. i have about 14 million pictures from olivia's first month of life, so i think i have some catching up to do...until then...later skaters.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

dr. mom

so before i make my plea for help and ask any of my 5 readers if you have any good tips on eating wheat free, let me share how we made this little discovery 18 months in to olivia's life. i may or may not be feeling inclined to brag about my instinct to investigate this problem and it definitely reaffirmed the idea in my mind that doctors are awesome and i particularly love our good ones that we seem lucky enough to have, but it's just not reasonable to think that their brains are little crystal balls that are 100% on point all the time. and we can't necessarily expect that of them either, in my opinion. that's when crazy moms like me have to get to work on google and let the diagnosing begin! ha. not really. but you get the idea.

anyway- over the past few months, some of you may have heard me joke/complain about the serious 'tude olivia has developed. granted lots of times it's probably really just been toddler attitude at its finest, but a lot of times it almost seemed like it was something else. like she didn't feel good or something so she was being grumpy. yet aside from the occasional ear infection, etc., she was fine. she would sometimes have noticeable stomach issues, but i didn't think much of it. she was also extremely lethargic a lot of days. she's always been an awesome sleeper and was/is sleeping 12 or 13 hours a night plus at least a 2 hour nap during the day. this gives no reason for her to want to lay around with her blankie an hour after waking up. and, last, her eczema came back (she had it pretty bad as a baby but it was only on her face and it just disappeared around 9 months, i think), but only on her body and in weird rough patches that looked more "allergy-ish," if that's possible.

SO- after some google-mania, i decided maybe her symptoms were indicating that she could have an iron deficiency. i told the pediatrician about these symptoms and she agreed we might as well test her. came back negative. back to google. found out that anemia symptoms can also be symptoms of food allergies, particularly wheat or even full blown gluten. super. made an appointment with an allergist that i luckily did not need a referral for because adam's work has bomb insurance. so i felt like i was cheating on our pediatrician, but i took her in.

we go to the allergy appointment and they test her for the "big ones" which are soy, peanuts, wheat, egg, egg whites and dairy i think. to my surprise yet almost relief, the wheat spot blew up to what looked like a big bug bite and the other ones just stayed little dots. not that i wanted something to be wrong, but i almost felt relieved that i didn't go through all this trouble and go to this appointment 7 days after a c-section (with my mom in tow, of course) for nothing. the doctor then went on to explain how these allergens attack the lining in the stomach and something about antibodies blah blah i don't really even remember. but we left with a big green folder of how to deal with this ridiculousness and the hope that she will grow out of it in as short as a year or as long as 6 years. or maybe not at all. no way to tell at this point, he said. and i guess the reason it's really only showing itself now is because only in the last couple months has she really developed an adult like diet. before that, around 1 year and younger, she was eating very basic babyish foods and jarred baby food. and before that, formula. so it wouldn't really be of significance back then...or something.

that was kind of long and more like a journal entry for me i guess, but does anyone have any products they like that are wheat-free? i am finding that the biggest struggles are dinner options and on-the-go snack options. she is kind of a picky eater these days anyway, so i seriously feel like this is all she eats:

any and all fruit (does this make up for the fact that she hardly eats any veggies?)
yogurt
popcorn
regular corn
hot dogs (though she is known to refuse them regularly too)
wheat free chicken nuggets
wheat free waffles
dora fruit snacks
she'll eat soups or chili or stuff like that too but since pasta is out it makes that hard too now.

the fact that bread and any cracker-ish type snack have been eliminated from her diet has really put a damper on things so i'm looking for some ideas. there is a allergen free bakery like 15 minutes from our house so i may go check it out and see if the loaf of bread for $6.99 and the 1 dozen hawaiian rolls for $4.99 (they did look delish) are worth a purchase.

i think the poor baby will be most sad to lose out on her favorite snack.....

we still have a half-full bag in the pantry... guess i better throw them away. or just eat them myself.

Friday, January 29, 2010

this & that

say what? mom, these bouncy seats are totally for 27 lb toddlers like me. don't you worry.

don't mind her smiley face tat. that would be the allergist trying to make her laugh during her testing the other day...which confirmed that she is definitely allergic to wheat. awesome. for another post. however, i will say that wheat-free waffles are surprisingly tasty.

our little mini in the bathtub this morning.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

sisters?

so overall, we're not really thinking olivia and violet look much alike. these shots are practically identical and it is cracking me up how much bigger olivia looks (top) basically just because of her big noggin. they were only 5 ounces different in weight but violet has a much smaller head, as you can clearly see. i will say they have the exact same little furrowed brow and maybe the same mouth? that's about it though, i think. i'll blog more later about what's been going on around here since the arrival of sister #2.... just thought this was a funny little comparison.


Thursday, January 21, 2010

family of four

baby violet is here!


born 1/20/2010 @ 11:00am

7 lbs 12 oz & 20 inches long

our other little baby is doing pretty good. despite what this picture suggests, she only wanted me to hold her for about 30 seconds of her visit to the hospital. the rest of the time was spent ignoring the baby and eating her popcorn and dora fruit snacks. she was more concerned that she might possibly be at a doctor's office which she did not much like. once she left with my parents, i think she was practically relieved. she's been staying with them and, from what we hear, seems to be enjoying herself. lots of attention and freedom and no baby = olivia's dream right now.
notice the strategic to-the-side hold. a bit difficult with a 27lb child, but the alternative was 27lbs on top of my very recent c-section. not good.

Friday, January 8, 2010

my little flower head

why do these towels never get old? so funny. olivia LOVES the tub but she also loves getting bundled up in her towel to catch some dora or read a few books before bed. tonight we went with the dora option which is why she is trying to maneuver around the camera to see her favorite friends on the TV.

cold weather+SEVERE binky addiction= chronic chapped lips.

her eyelashes are so long. seriously twice the length of mine. must be nice. i need some of this pronto.

"move it, mom."

ps- baby sister to be born january 20th if not before. 12 days or less! still no name, though i suppose we are narrowing it down. olivia is in for a REAL shock and i'm getting kind of nervous about it.....but i have finally bought newborn diapers and washed a few newborn purchases i've made over the past few months and i'm getting excited to have a teeny tiny one again verrrry soon. hopefully olivia doesn't trample her...pretty sure she's gonna try!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

christmas 2009

before you scan this slew of photos that cleary indicate i have no photography skills whatsoever, here's what we did over the holiday:

christmas eve with my grandparents+aunts+uncles+1 million cousins
christmas day on our own in the morning/afternoon and christmas night with my family and a sprinkling of adam's family at my parents' house. good times! enjoy the photos....

the only (bad) picture i got of our tree...

O getting her scribble on with aunt allison. i was on the other side of the camera thrilled that she will sit with someone else. she is clingy to the max lately.

really wondering whether or not this toy horse is real. so funny. she tried to sit on it, too.

playtime with her aunties on christmas eve. not sure what that face is about but she always loves a necklace to feel beautiful.

little sleepy face waiting to go downstairs on christmas morning!

"mom, this is totally lame and taking WAY too long!!"

the first walk by produced little to no interest. she was more interested in sprinting to her favorite thing-- gigi's glass candleholders.

refocused and cruisin' in style!

a nice moment with her babydoll. these are rare, mind you.

adam enjoying present time with some bubbly water. totally necessary at 8:30am.

opening her new dora dishes with dad....

her true love (dora). apparently her entire christmas could've cost only $4.99.....

checking out the microphone her texas cousins sent. anything that makes noise with the push of a button is a hit with this one.

sharing her beloved dora with aunt andi and cousin riley

coleman about to put on a rousing performance of some sort...

mckinley up to no good

the cuzzies fine dining for dessert at their private table.

happy new year!